Potty training is a hot topic amongst my friends and acquaintances at the moment with some early accomplishers and others who are older and still in nappies. There is definitely an element of competition and pressure to conform especially as some nurseries will not allow children into preschool if they still wear nappies. This baffles me, as the average age for daytime dryness is 3 years old, which is the age that preschool starts. Now, please note, that this is the ‘average’. This means that some children will be closer to 4 or possibly even older when they are consistently dry during the day. I do appreciate that there can be medical causes for a delay but those are not sufficient to skew this average.
I think there is excessive pressure placed on parents to start potty training when their kids aren’t ready. This pressure may be passed on to the children and can lead to anxiety in both parent and child. I don’t think this is a healthy place to start developing a new skill and that is why I will not bow to the pressure just to conform. I will wait for my little boy to show me when he is ready.
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